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Friday 15 June 2012

Dispute between Wife & Husband & its solution


Dispute between Wife & Husband & its solution

Status of Man in Home

Wife & Husband are two wheel of a vehicle. For a better life a good relationship between them is very important. Man is a guardian of a woman and administer of a family. He is a responsible for growth, education, treatment, food, residence, protection and basic necessities of his children; as well as he is an answerable of the fundamental rights of his wife. In this sense he is superior and has supremacy in family. By creation man is the strongest then woman, physically, mentally, and sexually. He can face the problems & difficulties with his courage and power. Man spends his wealth on his family.

Characteristics of a good wife

The pious wives are
  1. Obedient
  2. They guard (their chastity) in the absence of their husbands with the protection of Allah.


The solution of a dispute

There are four step solutions to remove the dispute and clash of Wife & Husband

  1. To admonish 
  2. Temporary separation of Beds
  3. Striking a temporary parting (to wife if she will disobey and defy)
  4. Arbitration

Allah almighty said in the holy Quran

34. Men are guardians of women, because Allah has made one superior to the other, and (also) because men spend their wealth (on them). So the pious wives are obedient. They guard (their chastity) in the absence of their husbands with the protection of Allah. But those women whom you fear will disobey and defy, admonish them; and (if they do not amend) separate them (from yourselves) in beds; and (if they still do not improve) turn away from them, striking a temporary parting. Then if they become cooperative with you, do not seek any way against them. Surely, Allah is Most High, Most Great.

35. And if you fear a breach between the two, then appoint one arbitrator from the husband’s family and the other from the wife’s family. If both (the arbitrators) resolve to bring about settlement, Allah will create harmony between them. Indeed, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.

Sura an-Nisā’ 4:34, 35

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2 comments:

  1. Husband wife disputes are very common. They shouldn't be taken seriously until and unless their are no more solution available for the dispute.

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  2. Thanks for providing such a useful information. Hope to get some more information in future also.
    Husband Wife Dispute solution

    Regards,
    Vashikaran Specialist

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